The Other

If you decide to break, the other won’t believe in your new decision, you acknowledge vane and his first impulse will be the denial. Get ready for this you need to be prepared for it, you can not suffer an emotional letdown everytime you have a contact with him. The formula will have prepared some tricks for when you go to see you: repeat your point of view over and over again Explain your purpose from the beginning but only one time you do not justify all the time, will give samples of weakness defends your posture and attacks eludes the conversation, jump by tangent, speaking of something else not you des game.Pay attention and affection when you try either and you talk cordially, not do it if you attack.Express your feelings in positive and assumes your mistakes, you will feel comforted are you afraid to be alone or single? Other points to keep in mind are your needs. You will have to assess which is the reason that makes you want to return may need protection or love to take you to do something that really has no reason for being. Are you afraid to be alone? Filling a gap? If this is the case, recalls all the bad relationship and checks to see if it is worth try again only by fear. Overcomes fear and you’ll learn to live on her own.

Your partner will need a reasonable time to instruct you to react. At that time you will be the victim of accusations, negative, good and bad moments. If you are focused on your overall objective you can cope with it better. Gives you time not you focalices in the conversation of yesterday that was so traumatic and respondent and appreciates the progress that you’re making in a whole. If you focus on the small details you will have moments of euphoria and despondency.